How to Talk to a Loved One About Needing Care – Our Top Tips for a Supportive Conversation
Talking to a loved one about having care can feel overwhelming, but the truth is, ignoring the signs of struggling can lead to bigger problems down the line—falls, hospital admissions, and declining mental health, to name a few. If you’ve noticed a neighbour or family member finding daily tasks harder, feeling isolated, or struggling with their hygiene, now is the time to have that conversation before a crisis happens.
At Lakeland Care, we’ve helped thousands of local people in Ulverston, Barrow, and Millom live safely and comfortably in their own homes since 2008. We know that taking the first step is hard, but we’re here to make it easy.
Our Top Tips for Discussing Care with a Loved One
- Start the Conversation Early – Don’t wait until there’s a crisis. Bringing up the idea of care early allows your loved one to feel in control.
- Reassure Them – Home care isn’t about losing independence; it’s about staying independent for longer, with the right enabling support.
- Listen to Their Concerns – Fear of change is normal. Address their worries with facts about how care can improve their quality of life (and yours).
- Show Them Real Examples – Sometimes, the best way to ease concerns is to see what great care actually looks like. Show them our Facebook page, where they can see real Lakeland Care carers, heartwarming client stories, and the ways we support people every day. Seeing friendly, familiar faces can make care feel much less intimidating.
- Give Them Control – The most important thing is that your loved one feels in charge of their own care. Let them know they have options—care is not a one-size-fits-all service. This is why choosing the right provider is so important. They deserve a provider that listens to them, understands their needs, and treats them with the respect they deserve.
Getting Care in Cumbria: Why Choose Lakeland Care?
If you’re looking for trusted, high-quality home care in Ulverston, Barrow, or Millom and surrounding areas, Lakeland Care is the provider you can rely on. Unlike large national agencies, we are a local, employee-owned company, meaning our carers are invested in delivering the best possible care—because this is our community too.
Here’s how to arrange care with Lakeland Care:
Option 1: Private Care – The Fastest Route
- If your loved one needs care quickly, you can arrange a package with us directly.
- Call our friendly team, and we’ll book a free consultation to discuss your loved one’s needs.
- We create personalised care plans, from short visits to full-time support.
- You have complete flexibility and control over the care you receive
Option 2: Local Authority Funded Care
- If your loved one qualifies for council-funded care, they will need an assessment from Cumbria County Council.
- You can request Lakeland Care as your preferred provider, ensuring the best local support.
- If you need help navigating the process, we’re happy to offer advice—just ask!
Ready to Take the First Step?
There’s no reward for struggling alone. The right care package can transform your loved one’s quality of life—and with Lakeland Care, you know you’re in good hands.
📞 Call us today to discuss your needs: 01229 585693
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